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I was just in Thailand and I stayed at an organic farm and sustainability center called Pun Pun. It was run by a fellow named Jon and his wife Peggy.

Below is a 15 minute video of Jon sharing the philosophy of his center.

It’s a beautiful example of a well articulated point of view and clear sense of why. And I think it might just inspire and warm your heart.

 

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five steps to identify your point of view – the short course

point of view five steps to identify your point of view   the short courseI’ve been blogging a lot about point of view (which is helping me sort out my own point of view on it) and I thought it might be nice to take all of it and boil it down a bit into some simple steps on how you can really focus your own point of view.

STEP #1: Think of your deepest wounds and clarify what they are. You need a sandbox to play in – not just ‘life’ and ‘helping people who are stressed.’ What’s the journey you know most intimately? You can read more about this here.

STEP #2: Refine your point of view on that particular journey to you’ve undergone heal your wounds. What have you learned? To help you delve deeper here consider answering these questions about your story and these questions about your point of view.

STEP #3: Ask yourself where people who have undergone the same journey and who share your point of view are already congregated. Identify your hubs.

STEP #4: craft offerings that can help people on their journey (which has also been your journey) and that are aligned with, embody and express your truest point of view.

STEP #5: share your offerings through the hubs you’ve identified.

 

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50 real life examples of point of view in action

fifty 50 real life examples of point of view in actionThe other day I wrote a post about why point of view mattered (and even gave a bunch of questions you can ask to hone in on yours) so much in marketing and I gave a few examples.

But I thought a few more might help really drive home how pervasive and effective a clear perspective is in life and business.

Here’s fifty of ‘em . . .

Joanna Macey, author of The Great Turning, believes that we are in a time of The Great Turning and that there are  three core types of work needed. Holding Actions (e.g. lock downs, sit ins, tree sits, direct action, letters to the editor etc), Creating Alternatives (e.g. strawbale, permaculture, solar power, wind power, non violent communication) and Shifting Consciousness (e.g. deep ecology work, yoga, shamanic work, writing books or making movies on our relationship to the planet etc). Moreover, she believes that all three of these types of work need to work together instead of criticizing the others as being ‘less real’.

Non Violent Communication comes from the belief that there are two ways to live. The first is to come from the place of ‘how do i get what i want?’ and the other is, ‘how do we all get our needs met’. They believe that if we come from the second place we’re all much more likely to get our needs met and live happier and healthier lives.

Many people follow the 10 commandments which are a point of view of how to live a good life.

Freud did not believe in the collective unconscious, but Carl Jung did. They had a difference of point of view and ultimately divided over it.

Similarly, there are many different schools of thought in yoga, branches of the church and Buddhism that all come from the same root. What divides them now? Differences in point of view.

The five elements in traditional Chinese medicine are a map and point of view on what is needed to have in balance to live a healthy and happy life.

The four directions are an indigenous perspective on what is needed to have in balance to live a healthy and happy life in harmony with nature and the seasons.

The seven chakras come from the point of view that our well being starts from an energetic basis before the physiological one and are a map and model of the seven core energetic centers.

George Lakoff wrote a book called ‘Don’t Think of An Elephant’ and he believes that the best way to understand the worldviews of liberals vs. conservatives is to look at it as a family model. His point of view is that the conservatives fundamentally have a Strict Father model and that liberals have a Nurturing Parent model. And that both models have a very different worldview underneath them.

David Deida believes that the ‘zing’ in sexual relationships comes from polarized sexual energies – when one partner steps in the masculine energy and the other partner lets themselves open to the feminine energy.

The people who work for restorative justice believe that the point of justice should be about restoring wholeness in a community – not just punishing people.

The zodiac is not only a map of the sky but a point of view about why we are the way we are and are born with the qualities we’re born with.

Derrick Jensen lays out twenty very clear premises about why we need to act now to create change starting with a premise that western civilization is not and will never be sustainable.

Feminism is rooted in the belief that men hold power, anarchism – that the state holds power, racism – that white people hold power. And they all work to confront and shift that power.

A participant in a recent Vancouver workshop was going to lead a workshop for men with anger issues. His belief was that, underneath the anger, they were really just afraid.

Thomas Leonard wrote his book The 28 Laws of Attraction to articulate a point of view that said all this striving and personal growthing was actually unnecessary – that you could set up your lifestyle to bring you what you were wanting much more easily.

My core take in marketing is summed up in the metaphor of the journey from Island A to Island B that I illustrate in this video.

The four food groups is a point of view. As are the food pyramids. The Zone. The Blood Type diets. The vegan diet, raw vegan diets, primal diets, traditional foods etc. They’re all points of view of what we should eat and why.

The famous doctor Jack Nicklaus had crippling knee pain. The doctors diagnosis was that his knee was irreparably damaged and that he needed surgery. Then he saw Pete Egoscue who thought it was his hip rotated forwarded. So he worked on the hip and the knee pain went away. In the end, Pete’s map matched the territory better than the doctors.

Jon Stewart took over The Daily Show years ago. He believed that this mock news show should be about making fun of the MEDIA and their bias towards sensationalism and conflict not about pranking people (which the show had been). This point of view became the heart of the show as he gradually replaced everyone on the staff and built a team around that understanding.

Marketing guru Jay Abraham believed that the single most potent thing you could do to increase sales was to take on the risk of the transaction rather than expecting the customer to.

The book ‘Men Are Great’ says it’s point of view right in its title.

The anti oppression movement comes from the understanding that power and privilege are not evenly divided in society – and that the lines of power tend to run along lines of race, class, gender and other forms of privilege.

Two of my favourite shows growing up, MacGyver & Doctor Who are both rooted in the idea that problems can be solved with smarts and not guns.

Debbie Ford is a recent proponent of the ancient idea of ‘the shadow’. The idea that our greatest gifts and authenticity will be found in our darkest shadows and that the things we repress end up controlling us.

8tracks.com is an online community based on the idea that mix tapes are cool and people should be able to share and listen to music freely.

Byron Katie, author of Loving What Is bases her work in the understanding that our suffering is caused by our thinking and fighting with reality.

Contrarian Australian dentist, Paddi Lund once believed that the purpose of a business was about generating money but after years of deep depression he came to understand that the purpose of business was about generating happiness.

Tiina Veer of Toronto believes that yoga should be accessible to people with round bodies.

The movie Lemonade, about people who used being fired as a chance to reinvent their lives, sums up their point of view in it’s tagline: “It’s not a pink slip. It’s a blank page.”

Patch Adams holds the belief that health care should be free and that we can care for each other.

My new friend Aumatma believes that health care can be offered on a gift economy basis. Meaning people don’t have to pay anything other than what they want.

Kris Ward of Abundant Yogi has her point of view nestled in her company name – the idea that economic abundance and yogic philosophy are not mutually exclusive.

My old pal Joey Hundert created Sustainival out of the notion that the best way to reach the unconverted with a message of sustainability is through fun – so he’s created a sustainable carnival of sorts where he powers rides (e.g. the gravitron or ferris wheels) with vegetable oil.

Winnipeg’s brilliant Beth Martens began to offer yoga classes to care givers (e.g. taking care of eldery parents, sick spouses or children etc.) because, from her own life experience, she could see that they needed extra support.

TED Talks! Every single TED Talk is based around a liberating idea. Every single TED Talk expresses a point of view.

The Orgasmic Birth movement comes from the idea that birth doesn’t always need to be painful. That sometimes it can even be pleasurable. Radical notion!

Christianity holds the idea that the only way to eternal life (which is itself a point of view) is through Jesus Christ.

Former Anglican minister Tom Harpur wrote the Pagan Christ based on this idea: there was no Jesus of Nazareth – that the bulk of the new testament were simply egyptian myths that had been redressed in the clothing of a new age and time. The website www.jesusneverexisted.com is based on the same notion.

Author Michael Tsarion believes that civilization started in the west (Ireland) and migrated East. His entire two volume set The Irish Origins of Civilization works to back that up.

The amazing project Post Secrets is based on the idea that people would like to share their secrets and read the anonymous secrets of others.

San Francisco’s restaurant Millennium is based on the idea that vegan food can be world class and taste amazing (not just tofu and salads).

The Mayor of Edmonton, Stephen Mandel is a big believer in the book, The Creative Class which talks about how important the Arts are to local economic development.

The Kinsey Scale suggests that human sexuality is not a cut and dry line of heterosexual and homosexual – but more of a scale or spectrum that we all find ourselves in.

Louis Pasteur created the germ theory to suggest that germs were the cause of disease. His colleague Antoine Bechamps believed that ‘the microbe was nothing – the terrain was everything.’ That germs were the result of a polluted and toxic blood stream not the cause of it. On his deathbed, Louis Pasteur confessed that Bechamps was right. But Louis Pasteur had sold his point of view better.

Thomas Edison and Nikola Tesla both promoted different forms of power. Thomas Edison won. But many people would disagree that his form of energy was, indeed, better than Tesla’s. But the best point of view doesn’t always win. The best articulated one does.

Before his career destroying affair was exposed, John Edwards shared the belief that there wasn’t just ‘one America’ there were ‘two Americas’. There was an America where you could afford to feed your kids and an America where you couldn’t. An America where you could afford health insurance and one where you couldn’t. His analogy rang true for many.

My friend Jeff Golfman started his blog, www.thecoolvegetarian.com based on the idea that there were already enough recipes out there. There was already enough research to suggest that a plant based diet was better for people and the planet – what he saw missing was any conversation about lifestyle and how to live a rocking and fun life as a vegetarian or vegan, how to deal with the social aspects of it.

My friend and colleague Alex Baisley offered up the liberating idea for entrepreneurs that we should design our ideal lifestyle and then back our business into that – not the other ways around. The idea that you can live your dream lifestyle right now; that you don’t need to wait until you retire.

John Gray had the novel notion that it’s like men and women are from different planets – Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. A lot of people resonated with it. The idea was that if we could honour our differences we might actually come to celebrate and enjoy them rather than seeing them as sources of frustration.

The documentary The Corporation came from the point of view that if we were going to consider corporations people (as they legally are) then we should be honest about their personality profiles: psychopaths.

The documentary The Economics of Happiness explores the idea that we need to shift from global corporate economics to local economics – and that this shift would create deeper community, happiness and well being.

My colleague Carrie Klassen‘s tagline is ‘guilt free marketing for nice people.’ There’s a whole worldview in there. That marketing can be done by nice people without guilt. What an idea!

The website http://makelovenotporn.com (extremely adult content) comes from the notion that pornography has skewed people’s understanding of what sex is and could be and has created a world of assumptions (points of view) on how it’s supposed to look. And her website is about directly challenging those.

 

Do you have any more examples? Please leave them below . . .

 



 

 

9 reasons why point of view is the future of marketing

180088 10150416712785195 516700194 17821077 6305970 n 9 reasons why point of view is the future of marketingI think that having a clear point of view is the future of marketing.

The photos to the right illustrate very clear and amusing points of view.

But what does having a clear perspective have to do with marketing?

I think it’s future of marketing not because I think it’s the most important but I think it’s one of the least understood and least explored facet of marketing today.

172677 10150450020850195 516700194 18221945 3639080 o1 9 reasons why point of view is the future of marketingThe marketing world has been talking about features, benefits, speaking to the problem or evening promising a clear result for years. Those are all vital, but I think that point of view is often an overlooked piece. Yes, having a target market matters but it’s not a new idea – and what does it matter if you aren’t bringing those people a refreshing perspective?

I think that having a clear point of view is the difference between people paying attention to you and ignoring you.

I think that having a clear point of view is the difference between people talking about you and forgetting you.

181554 10150416712815195 516700194 17821078 6244553 n1 9 reasons why point of view is the future of marketingI think that having a clear point of view is the difference between crafting good offers and irresistible ones.

I think that having a clear point of view is the difference between attracting okay clients and amazing ones.

A big claim.

Let me back it up a bit . . .

What’s a point of view all about?

 

Your point of view is your liberating idea.


168035 10150368968390195 516700194 16979679 7319339 n 9 reasons why point of view is the future of marketingMy friend and colleague Alex Baisley offered up the liberating idea for entrepreneurs that we should design our ideal lifestyle and then back our business into that – not the other ways around. The idea that you can live your dream lifestyle right now; that you don’t need to wait until you retire.

John Gray had the novel notion that it’s like men and women are from different planets – Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. A lot of people resonated with it. The idea was that if we could honour our differences we might actually come to celebrate and enjoy them rather than seeing them as sources of frustration.

The documentary The Corporation came from the point of view that if we were going to consider corporations people (as they legally are) then we should be honest about their personality profiles: psychopaths.

The documentary The Economics of Happiness explores the idea that we need to shift from global corporate economics to local economics – and that this shift would create deeper community, happiness and well being.

My colleague Carrie Klassen‘s tagline is ‘guilt free marketing for nice people.’ There’s a whole worldview in there. That marketing can be done by nice people without guilt. What an idea!

I had the idea that marketing training should be accessible to people regardless of their income – and especially to folks doing good work to make the world a better place.

These are all ideas that some people will hear and say, ‘yes! that’s always felt true for me . . . you said what I’ve always been feeling.’

 

Your point of view should express people’s unarticulated inklings.


What’s your liberating idea?

It’s some new notion (or an old notion framed in such a way that people can hear it) about how to engage in a particular journey people are on.

It’s both the map and the route you’re planning to take but it’s also WHY you chose that route. It’s all the elements (e.g. wind, tides, waves, sea monsters, rocks and reefs, safe harbours, pirates etc.) that come together to determine why one route from Island A to Island B is better than the others.

It’s your understanding of not just the source of the pain (the symptoms people experience) but the underlying causes of it.

It’s your world view, opinion, your take on things, your angle, your diagnosis, context, an expression of your unique voice. It’s your thesis.

It’s the accumulation of all your past experiences of a particular journey organized, sifted and distilled.

Generally, it’s about your point of view on yourself, life and other people – but more narrowly it’s your take on how to best make the journey. It’s your opinion on how to go about solving the problem.  It’s the case you’re trying to make to the jury about why the evidence should be looked at in a certain way.

It says, ‘there are _____ people/communities with _______ problem. and I think that ______ is the best way to address it because of _______ factors.’

It’s acknowledging that what’s being done is, somehow, not enough. that if enough were being done – if the right approach had been found, we wouldn’t still be having the issue. It doesn’t mean your plans are guaranteed to work – but that you have a working blueprint; you have a direction.

You do things a certain way – why?

Here’s a piece I wrote in another blog post about this:

The heart of marketing is this: “You have ______ problem, and want _______ result.” Does that make sense? You’re basically asking them to trust you. You’re asking them to follow your lead, to trust in your product or service, to trust the process you will be taking them through. And that can be scary for people – especially around certain problems.

Once you’ve established the basic relevance clearly, once people see that what you’re offering is a fit, that it’s designed for people like them, you need to go about building some credibility by telling them about past results, and how you do what you do. But there’s a level most people ignore which is sharing why you do your work the way you do it. Sharing the ‘point of view’ or ‘philosophy’ that guides your work. It’s surprisingly powerful to give people the bigger picture, the context that you see yourself working in. Like showing people not only the best route from Grand Central Station to Central Park – but breaking out the whole map of Manhattan and explaining why you chose that route. There’s something about this that is enormously reassuring and can allow people to really relax into your guidance.

This is my experience: most people have years of experience in making a journey and supporting others but most people haven’t reflected on it and articulated their findings. They’re learned from their experiences, but they haven’t yet learned what they learned. They went through the experience but they haven’t taken the time to sit with it and pull out the lessons in such a way that they’d make sense to anyone else.

Nine reasons why point of view matters so much . . .

reason #1: the confused mind says no. Most people’s businesses are tremendously fuzzy. No one really ‘gets it’. They describe them and people are left having no idea what it’s about. You need to be clear about the journey you’re offering to help them with (i.e. the problem you solve for a particular group of people and the result you’re helping them achieve).

That’s the baseline.

If there’s no clarity there then there’s no chance for relevance.

But beyond that you need to be clear about your perspective of the journey. If you aren’t . . . well there are a lot of other people  offering what you offer to choose from. You don’t want them feeling fuzzy about your approach to the problem. You want your core philosophy to be clear and explicit.

Again, it’s not just what you’re offering – it’s where you’re coming from.

When it is, your approach will make sense to them (and you). When your point of view is clear to them then suddenly everything you’re doing will make sense to them because it all comes from the same core perspective. They will value it more. Everything gets aligned. Your point of view becomes the true north around which everything magnetizes. This ‘golden thread’ provides an overall narrative or story to follow. This doesn’t mean people will love it, or agree. It just means that what you’re offering will make sense to them and that they can decide if that is a fit for them.

reason #2: You’ll attract way better clients. There’s an old adage that ‘people love buying, but they hate being sold to.’ And yet, there’s the fear that if we stop advertising and selling then people will stop buying. But a) that’s a terribly limited notion of marketing and b) it’s just not necessarily so. What if there was a way to draw people to you who are a perfect fit for you?

There is.

But let me define ‘perfect fit’ in a way that might be new for you.

Criteria #1: They are committed to taking a journey that you can help them with.

Criteria #2: They are generally the kind of person you like to like to connect with. They embody the qualities you most want (e.g. open minded, positive, ready to do the work and take responsibility for their lives, they show up on time, pay well etc).

Criteria #3: They share your point of view on life and particularly the journey even if they haven’t been able to articulate it as well as you (or they’re in a place where they’re genuinely open to being persuaded about another way of seeing things).

When you put out a clear point of view, your approach will attract people who are already aligned with what you believe; people who are open to what you have to say and ready to work with you. It’s like a clear homing beacon. It’s like a bright lighthouse that cuts through the rain and the fog indicating where safe harbour is. They see the lighthouse and think, ‘Aha! Finally. We’ve arrived.’ That’s how we feel when

It’s much harder to try to educate a client into a new point of view. You’ll still have to do some of that – but overall you’ll be getting a lot more people who are a match for what you’re offering.

And consider this: while clarifying an explicit definition of who you’re trying to reach (your niche) is vital – what if a niche could also be implicit? What if another way to look at your niche is, ‘people who are into _______ point of view’? Interesting, yes?

Consider these brilliant words from Seth Godin‘s book seminal book Tribes.

tribes seth godin hotel emarketer 9 reasons why point of view is the future of marketingThis leads to an interesting thought: you get to choose the tribe you will lead. Through your actions as a leader you attract a tribe that wants to follow you. That tribe has a worldview that matches the message you are sending.

Important clarification: Great marketers lead people, stretching the boundaries and bringing new messages to people who want to hear them. The core of my argument is that someone’s worldview, how they feel about risk or other factors, is beyond your ability to change in the short run. Sell people something they’re interesting in buying. If you can’t leverage the worldview they already have, you are essentially invisible. Which is a whole other sort of magic, one that’s not so profitable.

If you are leading a tribe focused on saving the world by fighting global warming, the tribe will of course have a worldview that includes the idea that global warming is a problem and that it includes the idea that global warming is a problem and that it can be addressed through its actions. They come to the tribe with that in mind and your leadership resonates with them.

If, on the other hand, you choose to work to persuade a different group, one with a very different worldview, they will likely reject you. Al Gore started leading his tribe when he didn’t know who they were. He stated his message and people found him.

Ultimately, people are most easily led where they wanted to go all along. While that may seem as if it limits your originality or influence, it’s true. Fox News didn’t persuade millions of people to become conservatives, they just assembled a tribe and led them where they were already headed.

Tribes are increasingly voluntary. No one is forced to work for your firm or attend your services. People have a choice of which music to listen to and which movies to watch. So great leaders don’t try to please everyone. Great leaders don’t water down their message in order to make the tribe a bit bigger. Instead they realize that a motivated, connected tribe in the mist of a movement is far more powerful than a larger group could ever be.

As the ability to lead a tribe becomes open to more people, it’s interesting to note that those who take that opportunity (and those who succeed most often) are doing it because of what they can do for the tribe, not for what the tribe can do for them.

This is the heart of the matter: Every leader cares for and supports a movement. A movement like the free speech movement at Berkeley or the democracy movement in Tiananmen Square or the civil rights movement in Mississippi. Or maybe a movement like the obsession with hand roasted coffee in Brooklyn or the worldwide collection of people obsessed with tattoos.

Today, you can have a narrow movement, a tiny movement, a movement in a silo. Your movement can be known by ten or twenty or a thousand people, people in your community or people around the world. And most often, it can be the people you work with or for, or those who work for you.

The web connects people. That’s what it does. And movements take connected people and make change. What marketers and organizers and people who care are discovering is that they can ignite a micromovement and then be propelled by the people who choose to follow it.

reason #3: A clearly expressed point of view will help you find the right hubs. You’ll naturally attract more clients, but, perhaps even more importantly, you’ll know where to find them. The myth of target marketing is that people hang out primarily with people who share the same demographics. While this is true in some ways, in others it’s not. People are more likely to hang out with others who share a similar worldview.

Not all black males, ages 50-60, living in Seattle, making $60-80,000/year are going to hang out in the same places, read the same magazines, or frequent the same events. But Pentacostal Christians? Fanatical pet owners? Doctor Who fans? Vegetarians? Anarchists?Improvisors?

Once we have identified the world view we’re coming from we can begin to ask ourselves, ‘where would people who believe this (or are open to this) hang out?’ To read more about the importance of thinking beyond demographics click here.

People often gather around a world view.

reason #4: Your offers are more likely to succeed when they align with what they already believe. It’s crucial to understand that people already have a point of view on why they’re stuck. They already have some kind of ‘take’ on their own situation. They already have a general worldview. Imagine a fundamentalist, born again Christian walking through a health show and seeing one booth for a pagan, ritual healing business, and another one that is all about prayer and faith healing. In truth they might do the exact same thing! But guess which one our born again friend goes to.

Now, some are confused and lost and very open to a worldview that would make sense of their current problems. And some are clear what the problem is and changing their minds is unlikely.

So, the point isn’t to cynically figure out your target market and identify their worldview (though I guess you could do that). It’s about you figuring out your own worldview (and you can begin that process by answering these questions) and then sharing that as clearly as possible. Your liberating idea becomes the beacon that draws people in. It’s a refreshing alternative to what they’ve already tried.

A clear and unique point of view is a powerful distinguisher. It is the core of what makes you unique. It’s the heart of why you design your offers the way you do.

But it’s more than this.

Your offers will become clearer, better and more aligned. Remember, your point of view is your diagnosis of the situation – and so it informs and affects your offers, your solutions – even your tone. As your understanding of the territory deepens, your map gets better and you’re better able to design a boat that is perfect for the route you want to take. The clearer your point of view is the more your offers will become embodied expressions of them. If you’re liberating notion is that we’re all equal – it wouldn’t fit to run a workshop where you are on stage speaking down to everyone the whole time with no chance for group interaction.

If you’re a men’s program and your take is that men need more honest feedback from women about what it’s like to be with them – you’re hardly likely to have the basis of your business be e-books. You’re far more likely to design workshops and events where men get a chance to get that live feedback like the Authentic Man Program did. Their point of view about raw authenticity isn’t just an idea – it affects the tone of their marketing, the colours they choose on their website etc. Nothing in your business is left untouched by your liberating idea.

Given that a core part of my point of view is about accessibility of this kind of marketing info for conscious entrepreneurs – it wouldn’t be very congruent for my programs to be the most expensive in the world and all happen at tropical resorts. So, I offer my workshops on a pay what you can basis.

This will happen naturally but it’s also possible to engage it consciously as an art form.

reason #5: They will trust you more. Think of anyone you deeply trust. Don’t they have a clear point of view? Don’t they have a clear and well articulated understanding of certain things? In fact, think of anyone who’s well known for making a difference in the world. People often become famous for a holding a certain point of view. Others who share it say, ‘yes! i’ve always believed that too.’ This is at the heart of becoming a hub.

Think of Martin Luther King Jr., Gandhi, Che Guevera, Malcolm X or Mother Theresa. Didn’t they all have crystal clear perspectives? We come to depend on people for these. People who can clearly express what everyone else has been feeling and thinking and back it up . . . we love these people.

There’s something reassuring about knowing where someone is coming from and what they’re about.

reason #6: Your point of view is the source of every piece of content you ever create. Over the years I’ve come up with a bunch of questions that help people clarify their take on things. You could write a blog post question and have people love it.  Looooove it.

Why?

Because people are looking for a map that makes sense. They’re looking for someone they can trust. They’re desperately trying to make sense of their situation so they can know where to invest their energies.

reason #7: It feels really good to articulate it and take your whole life’s experience and find a framework for it, to make sense of it. It’s freeing and liberating. There’s the old saying that ‘every master was once a disaster’. Because they went through pain but then they reflected on it and harvested the wisdom from it. Your mess is your message . . . but only once you’ve reflected on it and learned from it.

Articulating your point of view is not only an offering to the world – it’s a beautiful gift to yourself. It’s healing. It refreshes you. It will have you excited about your business again. You will feel rich . . . overflowing with this feeling of, ‘wow. I have so much to say about this!’ And you do. You have more to say that you can imagine.  Don’t believe me? Go answer these questions and see for yourself.

reason #8: It will make people talk about you. Point of view is central to word of mouth marketing. It’s what draws them to you. It’s how they talk about you to their friends. ‘you know how most ______’s do it ______ way? Well he does it ______ way instead because of  ______ story.’ People like to talk about ideas that make a difference. It makes them feel smart. And, if the idea was liberating to them, you’d better believe they’ll tell everyone.

191971 10150450020910195 516700194 18221948 2413549 o 9 reasons why point of view is the future of marketingreason #9: You get to be yourself. Perhaps the best reason . . . A while back I wrote a blog about finding your voice. There’s something even better than finding your voice. It’s expressing it. When you get really grounded in your point of view you move much more into a place of expressing yourself instead of trying to impress everyone. You get to authentically say what you think.

Scary. Will anyone listen? Will anyone care. It’s the feeling that every artist feels as so beautifully captured in this video by Tanya Davis

 

 

So, it’s scary but you can do it! What’s the alternative? Trying to be someone else?

In fact, it’s more than that . . . this approach doesn’t just allow you to be yourself – it demands it of you. It requires that you actually say what you want to say in the way you want to say it.

You get to swear if you want to (heavens!). You get to call a spade a spade. You get to say what you think about your industry. It’s so relaxing to no longer feel like a fraud, like we’re posing and pretending to be someone or something we’re not. What a relief to no longer be chasing people but simply sharing where we’re coming from and seeing who that resonates with (more people than you think).

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So that’s it – nine reasons why having a clear point of view is the future of marketing. I’d love to get your reflections on where or not this makes sense or resonates with you.

 

To begin to articulate your point of view go and answer these questions.

seven ideas on finding your voice

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These are all human eyes.

Each one looks so different (you can find more here)

But that’s not the extraordinary thing.

The extraordinary thing is that each one looks at different things. From different angles. Each one sees the world in a different way.

Just the other day I had a 75 minute skype video conversation with Michael Margolis of www.getstoried.com.

Amazing.

Our conversation somehow wove together the notions of niche, point of view and story telling (and me talking about a sex workshop I went to and all sorts of unintentional innuendo). I’ll be sharing it with you all in the coming months.

And then today, I read an inspiring blog post about ‘finding your voice’. So, I thought I’d jot down some of my understandings about it.

Why is some marketing inspired and inspiring and other marketing feels gross? Why do some websites (like my friend Carrie‘s) feel so wonderful and like home and others feel slick and hypey? Why do some sales letters feel so real and authentic and others feel forced and contrived? Why do some people seem so trustworthy and others . . . we’re not sure.

Probably a lot of reasons, but these days I think that so much of it has to do with finding our voice.

Finding our own style. Our own way of saying things. Our own unique point of view and take on things. Telling our own story of the world from where we stand. Speaking from our own experience without apology. Finding our own way in the midst of a broader community.

It’s not about having the loudest voice – but the truest voice. The one that can harmonize best and solo when needed.

It’s about having the courage to call a spade a spade. To point out when the emperor has no clothes.

When you meet someone who’s found their voice you just melt. They’re so trustworthy. They’re not exuding a false confidence or bravado. They’re not posturing. They’re comfortable in their own skin. They’re not leaning on anyone. They exude what Stuart Wilde spoke of as a Silent Power. They’re walking through the world giving, not taking. There’s something so simple about them. It’s not complicated. It’s clear.

And remember: the confused mind always says no.

As you find your voice (both in tone and message) the world becomes less confused with you. It becomes clear about who you are. And you become not a searchlight desperately looking for people, but a lighthouse. A beacon calling your ships to safe harbour.

You won’t draw everyone; you’ll draw the right people. They’ll self select in. They’ll hear your words and your tone and they’ll say, ‘Yes. I’d like to hear more of that.’

Is there marketing to be done to magnify your voice and make sure it’s heard? Of course. But that’s another conversation.

There are so many ways to find your voice and, in his beautiful post below, Leo Babauta shares his take on this.

Here are a few of my own.

seven ideas on finding your voice

180473 10150416750620195 516700194 17821407 6255540 n 300x231 seven ideas on finding your voiceidea #1 – Be curious. I suppose this is the thread through the rest of them. Follow your curiousities. Because you’re the only one in the universe who feels them in just the way that you do. You’re the only one with those particular eyes that see things just as you do.

You can trust your curiosities to lead you perfectly.

They’re the best part of you that guide you your whole life towards wholeness.

180696 10150416707810195 516700194 17821022 6592372 n 300x231 seven ideas on finding your voiceidea #2 – Get some space. Do you ever just look at the front door and think, “I just want to walk on out . . . and keep going?” It’s a human itch my colleague Nicole Moen writes about – the urge for pilgrimage. The need to get out of our routines, habits and everything keeping us stuck where we are. The need for a fresh start. The need to begin again. To get space from all the expectations and demands on us so that we can begin to hear ourselves again.

idea #3 – Reflect on your journey. We do a lot of living, but not a lot of reflecting. You’ve been on a journey from somewhere to where you are now. And, on that journey, you’ve learned a lot. Much more than you realize. Think about where you started and where you are now.

What do you know about the journey now you wish you’d known back when you started? Go for coffee with a friend and share your stories. Listen deeply to each other. Reflect what you hear in each others stories. There’s non stop learning to be had here. A note: sometimes we are just too close to our own lives to reflect on it. Sometimes we need a guide to help us. It could be a friend, a guru, a mentor, a counselor or therapist. Someone who loves you and is deeply skilled in listening.

idea #4 – Let yourself bitch (privately). Don’t try to be so positive, people pleasing and accommodating. Stop being so accepting and forgiving for a few hours. Let yourself be human. Let yourself complain viciously about all the bullshit you see around you: in your community, in your industry, in the world. Be ruthlessly honest about what you think and feel. Write it all down.

And realize that you’re not alone.

And realize that others feel this way too and they feel alone.

Why not speak up and let them know they’re one of many? Why not pose questions in facebook statuses and tweets asking, ‘does anyone else feel this way?’ And now that you know what you’re against take all of that and reverse it – what are you for? What do you want instead? Refine it. Clarify it.

idea #5 – Let yourself appreciate what you appreciate. Think of all the things you’re naturally drawn to in your life. Who are the colleagues you’re most drawn to and why? Who are your mentors? What fascinates you in your industry and in your life? Where are you nerdy? What do you actually spend your time on (vs. where you think you should spend your time).

idea #6 – Answer these questions. In depth. Take a friend out for coffee and give them a print out of these questions and have them ask you each questions, one at a time, until you have nothing left to say and then move onto the next. Delve deep, deep, deep. You might be surprised at how much you have to say. You might be surprised about how strong your opinions are.

185979 10150417833470195 516700194 17835314 7482520 n 300x225 seven ideas on finding your voiceidea #7 – Engage in conversation with people about it. Once you’ve bitched, clarified, delved and refined – why not express it in some way? Maybe it’s a poem, a rant, a song, a manifesto, a video, a set of principles, a diagram, a pie chart, a doodle etc. It won’t be perfect – but it will get the conversation going. And that’s what we want. And you will learn a lot from that conversation which will help you clarify for yourself what you believe.

Want some more ideas and thoughts on this? Why not read what Leo has to say below . . .

 

Finding Your Voice

by Leo Babauta.

Creators of any kind must find their voice.

We are writers, musicians, designers, programmers, parents, builders of anything. But we are not truly expressing ourselves, and speaking the truth, until we’ve found our voice: the tone, style, tenor, pitch, personality we use to express ourselves.

Our voice is our essence, writ plain for the world to see.

A reader and fellow writer asked me how I found my voice. And I have no easy answer — I’m not even sure I can say I’ve fully found my voice yet. It’s a quest that doesn’t seem to end — not a Grail quest, really, but a constant retuning as the essence of who I am neverendingly changes.

But I feel I’ve found something that has the texture of truth, even if only a tactile approximation. I’ll share some of my thoughts, but keep in mind I don’t hold the answers firmly at all.

I’m learning, and I hope my learning helps yours. This is written for writers, but the ideas are the same for anyone who creates anything.

to read the rest of this brilliant post: click here

marketing lessons from a sex workshop

jessica oreilly 225x300 marketing lessons from a sex workshopSoooo . . . I went to a sex workshop recently.

My colleague Jessica O’Reilly (pictured here) was in town from Toronto (where I do a lot of work) leading a workshop. She’d come to my event when I was in Toronto and I’d never seen her work so she invited me on down.

The workshop was brilliant but it also lifted up a big time marketing lesson that I know a lot of people struggle with: do you sell them what they want or what you think they need?

You want to help people. People who are stuck. And you’ve probably got a really clear point of view about why they’re so stuck. So you want to get at the root of the problem. So you offer up a product or service that really strikes at the root.

And then no one buys it.

An interview with Jessica follows. We explore themes of the irresistible offer and an unexpected take on being generous in marketing.

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what is a sexologist?

A sexologist studies the cognitive, affective and behavioural aspects of sexuality and many sexologists work in education, research and clinical practice.

when did you start running workshops?

I’ve been running sexological workshops for four years on a number of topics ranging from HIV/AIDS to sexual pleasure techniques.

when we spoke you mentioned that your workshops seemed to fill faster than other workshops on Tantra. they’re both about sex but yours seem to attract more attention. why is that?

That’s true.

I’ve coordinated technique-based workshops as well as Tantra workshops and the former are far more popular.

It seems that more people are interested in the immediate take-home approach with regard to improving their sex life as opposed to long-term or broader scope topics which require more work and follow-through.

That’s not to say that there isn’t interest in Tantra or longer-term learning, but in my experience, there are more people interested in “quick fix” approaches to improving their sex lives. And that’s okay, because sometimes just attending a short workshop can help people to broaden their horizons and generate a meaningful dialogue about sex, communication and intimacy.

what are the titles of your workshops, how did you come up with them and how important do you think titles are?

I have a huge list of workshops (http://www.jessicaoreilly.com/m3.php — fun ones are at the bottom of the page) and I came up with the titles on my own. Titles are extremely important and I think I could actually use some help to make them a bit catchier — but I definitely want to ensure that the title accurately reflects the content, so that people know what they’re signing up for.

you’ve got these workshops called “Blow His Mind” and “Blow Her Mind”. I love those as titles. They short. Snappy. Sassy. But they also speak to the result you’re offering. were those the first titles you came up with?

Yes. They’re the first titles I came up with — I think sometimes your first instinct is the one to go with.

and what’s your understanding of why people come to a sex workshop? what are they REALLY wanting from it? Obviously to become better and more skilled lovers – but why? what’s in it for them do you think? and is it different between men and women why they come?

Yes.

People come to my workshops because they want to be better in bed — for themselves and for their partners. They also want to boost their self-esteem. I don’t claim to have all the answers, but I’ve learned a lot over the years and I remind clients that I can help them fill up their sexual tool box and then they can pick and choose according to their mood and their partners’ interests.

Both men and women want to learn specific techniques, but I do find there are more women interested in learning about their own bodies and their own sexual response. And overall, women seem to be more open to learning about sexual technique — at least in a group setting.

we spoke about how selling quick fix techniques vs. deeper solutions. what’s your take on this?

As a sexologist and as an entrepreneur, it’s my job to meet people where they are. What I believe as a professional is often less important than what a client believes — ultimately a client is the ultimate expert in his/herself.

So, even if I think that a workshop on communication skills would be of greatest benefit to a client’s sex life, if that person would rather learn some basic touching techniques, they’re likely going to benefit more from the latter since the buy-in is stronger. And when you give people what they want (as opposed to what you think will work), you’re building relationships and trust — in many cases, they’ll come back for more and be more receptive to your professional recommendations.

so you’re saying if you offer them what they WANT upfront (often based on the symptoms they’re experiencing and their sense of why they are experiencing them) then it’s easier to offer them what they need?

Tad here . . . Let me go smaller for a moment . . . this makes a lot of sense to me. if people think, ‘my sex life isn’t good because i’m lacking techniques’ – that’s a certain point of view. it’s their belief about why they’re struggling. and what i’m hearing here is that it’s better and easier (and maybe more loving) in the beginning to agree with this and give them that so you can build up the trust and credibility and even offer them a different world view that might be more accurate. but if you don’t get them in the door at all then there’s no chance to build trust at all. i wonder if too much marketing is trying to change people’s point of view (which is incredibly hard).

it has me think that a really important question in marketing is: ‘why do people you’re trying to reach THINK they have the problem they have?’ and then, ‘what’s an offering i could create that would align with that point of view?’.

it further strikes me that making an aligned offer isn’t the same as agreeing with them. it’s not saying, ‘your point of view is right’. it’s just saying, ‘okay. so you believe _______? wonderful. let’s start with that then.’

that feels really gracious but also way more effective. it’s speaking to where they’re at right now – but also what they BELIEVE about why they’re there.

any more thoughts on this Jessica?

I think you’ve hit the nail on the head.

You have to give people what they want first and address the issues/needs that they see as most pressing.

It’s not about what I think as an expert, but what they feel they need. I’m not in the business of changing people’s points of view. I do try to offer a broad perspective, so they can make empowered, informed decisions, but ultimately, if everyone shared the same point of view on sex, my job would quickly become obsolete.  When I think about any of the creative services I offer, I begin by posing the questions my clients might have. I ask myself, what are the three big questions people want answered with regard to a topic and then I build from there.

 

For more info on Jessica and her work you can go to: http://jessicaoreilly.com/

 

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elections, polarizing & having an opinion

Pasted Image 3 elections, polarizing & having an opinionWell, today are the elections in Canada. Myself and many of my friends are hoping for an end to the Harper regime (he’s Canada’s George W. Bush – but less charming) and a shift to something more progressive. We shall see in a few hours where it goes.

So, the other day, I sent out an email to my list (you can read it below).

The content of the email was interesting – but the reactions it got were even more interesting.

One person attacked me, called me a jackass and my email ‘inapproriate’ and the other person said it was the most important email I’ve ever sent.

Here are the take away lessons that are as true for your business as they are for politicians in voting season:

LESSON #1: It’s okay (actually really important) to have a point of view. This might seem obvious, but I’m struck by how many enterpreneurs are scared to share their views on things. They don’t want to offend anyone and so they never say what they really think. Are you a raw foodist who thinks that cooked food is poison? Awesome. Share that. Are you convinced that the root cause of all disease is excess toxicity in the body? Mineral deficiency? Stress? An inconsistency between the will of the soul and the will of the personality? Karma from past lives?

Be clear about what you think.

Ask yourself these questions to help you identify how you see the journey that people must take. So many people are sort of shy and scared and think that they’re being ‘gracious’ and ‘nice’ by not sharing where they stand. In reality, they’re coming across as dull and lacklustre. In the political world people are quickly labled as ‘spineless’, ‘wishy washy’ and ‘flip floppers’. It’s not a quality that anyone respects. You can disagree with someone and respect their intensity and sincerity of belief.

Not only is it okay to have an opinion, it’s important. We all know that so much of marketing is about differentiating yourself from others offering similar products and services. It could be argued that all marketing boils down to the question: ‘why should I do business with you versus the competition?’ But what most people miss is all the different ways they can differentiate themselves.

You can differentiate yourself based on who you’re trying to reach, what you’re offering, how you offer it, when and where you offer it – even the story of why you offer it the way you do. Most people profoundly underestimate the power that your story and point of view has on your marketing.

As your business grows – you will inevitably become a hub for something. Surprisingly – you will most often become a hub and a trusted advisor around a certain and particular point of view. Imagine a politician unwilling to have an opinion – just going wherever the poll numbers go (this shouldn’t be very hard to imagine). Then think of the people who most inspire you and inspired the world – you’ll find they all had a point of view they were willing to stand behind.

LESSON #2: It’s okay to polarize. But let me take it a step further. Not only is having a your own opinion a really, really good thing – it can be powerful to have your opinion be completely the opposite and contrarian to conventional wisdom. If you try to make your opinions mainstream most people will think you’re ‘okay’. But if you really speak out on polarizing issues (like elections) you will have some people love you and some people hate you.

It’s easy enough to share little differences that won’t upset anyone – but what if you have a contrarian opinion that you know your colleagues and others in your industry might strongly disagree with? What I’m saying is that this can actually be a profoundly powerful differentiator. The more polarized the point of view – the more polarized the response you’ll get. And here’s the marketing point: yes, some people will hate what you’re doing . . . but others will LOVE it.

They will adore you endlessly. They will champion your work. They will want to buy everything you own because you’re the one willing to point out the elephant in the room. You’re the one willing to take a stand on an important issue that everyone else is avoiding. Sometimes people think marketing is about making everyone love you. But, of course, that’s foolish.

Consider letting go of that and letting your freak flag fly. Consider bringing a new level of candor and honesty to your marketing – being yourself and expressing yourself with more and more honesty; letting the world know who you are without apology.

LESSON #3: Bless and release. When people disagree with your opinions and point of view – bless them and release them. Just let them go. How wonderful for them that they’ve found their own path. Don’t spend time trying to convince people to your point of view. Just share your thoughts and, like a light house, let people looking for your kind of safe harbour come to you. You won’t be a fit for everyone. How wonderful for you.

LESSON #4: Take a stand for issues bigger than your business. Is there a timely issue that you think people on your list might want to know about? Or might feel lost about what to do on it? Consider becoming an advocate or source of guidance there. I will always remember getting an email from Ron Berezan, The Urban Farmer – he ran a local gardening, landscaping and permaculture business in Edmonton for years. A beautiful man with a beautiful business.

And, one day, I got an email from him letting me know about some potential development that might happen in our beautiful rivervalley. There was a link to a survey I could take. I was so grateful for the heads up on the issue. It had nothing to do with his business directly, but it had everything to do with the point of view that we shared about the environment and our local community.

Are there issues like that for your own business? What are the issues that aren’t directly related but are indirectly a fit?

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For those who are curious – here are the emails.

The subject line was: “CANADA: If you’re unsure who to vote for, something to consider . . .” and the message read as follow . . .

Hey Canadian Friend,

Sorry for two emails in one day.

But Monday’s a kind of important day – and a lot of people I know are confused about how to vote.

And this might help.

It’s a note I got from my colleague Audric Moses of www.funkybugnaturals.com in Edmonton.

(from my colleague Audric Moses in Edmonton)

Hello everyone,

As you all know this is an election that has the potential to have a huge impact on the governance of this country. A majority of Canadians do not want Stephen Harper’s Conservatives in power, yet vote-splitting between Liberal, New Democrat, and Green supporters always results in Conservative seats in the House of Commons. I’m writing this simply to make sure that everyone is aware of the online voter tools available to them, and that strategic voting could have an enormous impact on the results of Monday’s election.

The first such tool is here: www.projectdemocracy.ca — a fantastic tool for non-conservatives. Project Democracy uses prior elections, the latest polls, and other factors to generate predictions on voting in each riding. Based on your postal code, they will then tell you which candidate has the best chance at defeating the Tory in that riding. There are at least 4 ridings in Edmonton where a non-Con has a chance to win, if people vote strategically. If you are in Edmonton-Strathcona, Edmonton-Centre, Edmonton-East, or Edmonton-Sherwood Park, please check out their recommendations.

The second tool, www.votepair.ca , is for those who want their party to get a vote, but still would consider voting for someone else to defeat a particular candidate. Essentially, you swap votes with someone else in the country to make a bigger impact. Put your name on the list, fill in the requested info, and your party will still get a vote, even if it’s not from you.

Third, if you still don’t think the Conservatives have been that bad, read the following article by Globe and Mail columnist Lawrence Martin: http://federalelectionblog.ca/2011/04/27/harpers-attack-on-democracy-itemized-by-lawrence-martin/ In it, he itemizes the most serious abuses, scandals, and other trespasses by the Harper government demonstrating their disregard for the Canadian democratic process and for we the people of Canada. We tend to forget these things as they come and go in the media, but seeing them listed like this is almost unbelievable, and far worse than any government before the current one.

Lastly, a more entertaining look at those same abuses of power: http://compellingcomics.justsomeguy.com/CanadaVotes2011/Canada.html

Thanks for reading, and please, pass this around! (if you’re a Conservative voter who won’t be swayed, please ignore this message).

Well, most of my people really liked it. But one person really didn’t. Here’s a shortened version of his email . . .

“My wife subscribes to your newsletter – and I saw the subject line and had to open it.  Don’t hold my comments against her. Shame on you.  You have no idea of economics and the consequences that the LEFT will have on this great country. Take a look at what the Left has done to most of Europe, they are BROKE.  The cost of the so called Green energy plus the excessive social programs are so high that all Governments in Europe are looking at walking away from these asinine concepts. Canadians are much too smart for a Jackass like you – so come Monday the Canadian people will show you and your Socialist crowd the EXIT DOOR. Oh and by the way, using your business email newsletter to further your own political agenda is inappropriate.”

How he is shocked by my leftist leanings given that the name of my business is Marketing for Hippies is fascinating to me. As is his opinion that he gets to tell me what’s appropriate and inappropriate to do with my email newsletter.

But then I got these emails from some clients of mine . . .

“Just to say Tad that I think that this is one of the most important emails you’ve sent to date. I really admire you for sending it! I just had a chat with one of my tenants who’s still not sure he’s going to vote and when he said he’d probably vote PC as he doesn’t like the LIberals…. well it broke my heart. He is truly a smart and passionate man who I would have assumed after nearly 2 years of knowing him would have been GREEN. I forwarded him this email and told him I wanted him to first and foremost vote and that I didn’t want to sway him, but to educate him. Thank you for helping me do this with this WONDERFUL COMMUNICATION.”

“I haven’t been to one of your seminars yet but thanks a lot for this information. I’ve already shared it with 9000 people!”

“Thanks for sending this out. EVERY CANADIAN should know MORE about the parties and VOTE on Monday icon smile elections, polarizing & having an opinion   I live in Toronto Danforth where Jack Layton runs and I intend to vote for him, too.”

“great… thanks for this…. I’m confused about who to vote for so this is useful.”

You can’t please everyone.

Can you share a story of a time you got these kinds of mixed reviews for sharing something you believed in as an entrepreneur? Share it below.

 

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TED TALK – Simon Sinek: How great leaders inspire action

Wow. This is brilliant. It’s not just about ‘what’ we sell or ‘how’ we make it – it’s about ‘why’. It’s about our point of view. What is your business about? So interesting. “People don’t buy what you do, they buy why you do it.”

Simon Sinek has a simple but powerful model for inspirational leadership all starting with a golden circle and the question “Why?” His examples include Apple, Martin Luther King, and the Wright brothers — and as a counterpoint Tivo, which (until a recent court victory that tripled its stock price) appeared to be struggling.

About Simon Sinek

In 2009, Simon Sinek released the book “Start With Why” — a synopsis of the theory he has begun using to teach others how to become effective leaders and inspire change. Full bio and more links

Watch the video here

 

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64 Point of View Revealing Questions

Pasted Image 44 64 Point of View Revealing Questions

(this began as 24 questions and ‘sentence stems’ but has slowly expanded over time)

The heart of marketing is this: “You have ______ problem, and want _______ result.” Does that make sense? You’re basically asking them to trust you. You’re asking them to follow your lead, to trust in your product or service, to trust the process you will be taking them through. And that can be scary for people – especially around certain problems.

This was driven home to me by Lois Kelly‘s amazing book on word of mouth marketing, “Beyond Buzz” (most of the questions below – the first 24 I think – are taken directly from her book). I’ve added a few of my own at the end too.

Once you’ve established the basic relevance clearly, once people see that what you’re offering is a fit, that it’s designed for people like them, you need to go about building some credibility by telling them about past results, and how you do what you do. But there’s a level most people ignore which is sharing why you do your work the way you do it. Sharing the ‘point of view’ or ‘philosophy’ that guides your work. It’s surprisingly powerful to give people the bigger picture, the context that you see yourself working in. Like showing people not only the best route from Grand Central Station to Central Park – but breaking out the whole map of Manhattan and explaining why you chose that route. There’s something about this that is enormously reassuring and can allow people to really relax into your guidance.

As you look out at all of the options that your target market has to solve the problems you work to solve, what do you notice? What is your point of view and perspective on what you see? What is your opinion about your industry? What is your take on the issues and trends in your industry? Look at the questions below and complete as many of them as you can without repeating yourself. Do at least seven of them (but the more the merrier).

Here are Lois Kelly‘s most excellent point of view questions and ‘sentence stems’ (with a few add ons).

1.    We believe that…

2.    Our take on ________ situation is that…

3.    The narrow slice of the issue that more people should understand is…

4.    The one thing that matters the most in this issue/trend is…

5.    People are wasting too much time talking about…

6.    The thing that should worry people is…

7.    Conventional thinking says ___________, but we think it’s really…

8.    The area where too much money and time is wasted in this industry is…

9.    Overcoming this one obstacle would change the game…

10.    To make a big difference in this area we should focus on just this one thing…

11.    We never want to be associated with…

12.    To make customers believers they need to understand this one thing…

13.    If you had a crystal ball, what changes would you predict for our industry over the next two years?

14.    What gets me most excited about our industry/business is…

15.    What makes people anxious about this issue/trend?

16.    If we were to look at our business/organization as a cause, what would it be?

17.    What most surprises people about this issue?

18.    What makes you angry about perceptions of our business/industry?

19.    Our product/industry/company matters more/less today because…

20.    Why is our industry/service especially relevant at this point in time?

21.    The biggest risk in this industry is (…) and no one wants to talk about it because…

22.    People would be very surprised if they knew this about our industry/organization…

23.    I’m hopeful that one day our industry will…

24.    What is your diagnosis and understanding of why they can’t seem to handle this problem? Are there institutional barriers? Mental barriers? Have they been raised believing certain lies? Are there certain principles they fail to understand? How would you explain to someone who was totally open and non-defensive about why they’re struggling so much?

25.    At its heart – my work is really about . . .

26.    When I look at my target market, what I most want for them more than anything in the world is . . .

27.    When I look at my target market, what I most see going on for them that I don’t think they even see themselves is . . .

28.    What books or magazines or blogs best capture and articulate what your business is about.

29.    What’s missing in the conversation about __________ is __________.

30.    I take a strong stand for _________ in my industry.

31.     I take a strong stand for _________ in my community.

32.    I believe that the three most critical elements to the journey from _______ to ________ are …

33.    When I look at my clients, the three biggest patterns I notice are …

34.    My clients often feel alone – like they’re the only person who is going through …

35.    The three biggest blunders I see people making over and over again that cause them to fail to get the results they want are …

36.    The three biggest myths people have about making the journey are …

37.     The three most common myths about my industry are …

38.    What have you been thinking about with your industry, craft etc. that you haven’t shared with anyone? (these often help to reveal your next place/step)

39.    What are leaders in your industry talking about? Is there anything that doesn’t feel true about this? Where do you differ from them? Where do you agree?

40.    What are your competitors talking about? Is there anything that doesn’t feel true about this? Where do you differ from them? Where do you agree?

41.     What are the top three things that trouble you about your industry? Grosses you out? Upsets you? Frustrates you?

42.     I think the three most important principles of a successful journey are …

43.     To successfully make the journey, you need to understand the difference between _________ and _________.

44.     Before people set out on their jouney, they should appreciate the genuine dangers of …

45.     What are people self diagnosing themselves with that’s wrong? They say to themselves, “I need ______ (often the quick fix/magic bullet they got sold (e.g. social media))” when they really need _________.” They think their real problem is ______ but you think it’s actually _________.

46.     What are your clients trying to ‘prove’ to the world – who are they trying to make wrong?

47.     Who are your clients secretly trying to impress?

48.     What are your clients (perhaps even unconsciously) in reaction to?

49.     What do your clients REALLY want and what is it they THINK they need to have in place in order to let themselves have it?

50.     What do the experts say about making the journey that you most disagree with?

51.     What do you see as the top three approaches people typically tend to take to making this journey and the strengths and weaknesses of them all (and why is your approach better/different?).

52.     What are the three biggest reasons that it’s not their fault that they’re struggling with the problems you help them with? What are the external factors that make having this problem likely and perhaps almost inevitable?

53.    What are the top three reasons this journey is so hard for people?

54.    What are the top three ways that people unknowingly and unwittingly self limit themselves in this area? and why do you think they do this?

55.    What are the top three things people are told they need to make this journey that they don’t need?

56.    What are your top three tips that can make the most immediate, tangible difference to someone going through this journey? What are three simple tools, tactics, approaches or ideas that can make this journey smoother, faster, more enjoyable and less risky?

57.     Besides what you offer, what are the top three complimentary approaches for people on this journey?

58.    What are the typical phases people predictably go through on this journey? If their journey were a book – what would be the typical chapter titles?

59.     What are three places or ways people feel ashamed of having their problems?

60.     In your opinion, if someone were to go to someone else who was offering what you offer, what is it that people need to see or hear in order to feel confident they’re getting a good deal? What questions should they ask and what answers should they expect?

61.     What are the top three things people should consider before embarking on the journey to make sure it’s really the right time for them?

62.     What supports are most important for people to have in place as they make this journey?

63.     What are the top three lies people are told about themselves on this journey?

64.     What are the top three lies people are told about the journey itself and how to get the results they want?

 

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