Coaching Transcript: A Life Coach, Niches and Unusual Intensity

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People often ask me what I do in terms of coaching. What my approach is. Well, today, I ended up doing a consultation on facebook chat with Sue Burness (pictured here). And she agreed to let me share the conversation with you.

We talked a lot about target markets and niches.

Enjoy.

Sue

Hi Tad: do we have a call? or can we do this on FB?

12:18 Tad

on fb?

12:18 Sue

sure

12:18 Tad

in the chat window?

12:18 Sue

yes

12:18 Tad

ok! let’s do that so why don’t we start with you telling me a bit about where things are at for you

12:19 Sue

okay, so I’ve realized I want to focus on what couldbe called “crisis coaching”-for people in crisis

12:20 Tad

cool

12:24 Sue

A friend of mine suggested I market my services to parents of gay and lesbian folks who are having trouble accepting it. I also think I’d love to help people who work in high-stress medical situations (this came out of being with my grandson in infant intensive care for a couple of weeks and watching what the nurses live with. Also, clearly want to support people who’ve been hurt by the legal system (although I concede there’s probably not much money in that. So what do you think about targetin a couple or three of these groups and having “lifecrisiscoaching” as a domain or is that too general?

12:25 Tad

ok. here’s my take.

first – a niche is a community of people that share a common set of needs. so, all three of those kind of fit that.

second – there are three criteria of a solid niche. 1) Clarity – people get who it’s for. 2) Enough who can afford to pay you 3) Hubs – you can find them.

out of those three – how do you feel your target markets do?

12:28 Sue

Parents of Gay/Lesbian-it would be easy to convey it to them, so they’d have clarity. I assume there are lots of them who can pay, but maybe not enough to be my only market. Hubs-easy

Nurses-again easy to make it clear, they make pretty good money, hubs-I’m not sure where I’c start-maybe post flyers along “hospital row” in Toronto. People who’ve been affected by the prison system-easy to find, easy to relate to, no probem with clarity, but there’s usually no money.

12:31 Tad

and how do you feel about each of these three? let’s rate them in order of how passionate you feel about them.

12:32 Sue

okay on a scale of 1-10 (prison folks -10, nurses 8, families of gay/lesbian folks 9 okay, am I still stuck on wanting to serve EVERYBODY?

12:33 Tad

nope. these are clear.

you’re doing great icon wink Coaching Transcript: A Life Coach, Niches and Unusual Intensity ;-)

12:34 Sue

yay!! words of praise from the master.

12:34 Tad

can you tell Tad about your personal connection to the gay/lesbian crowd? where did that one come from?

(and i’m also curious about what happened to the relationship coaching you were wanting to do? has that fallen off the radar entirely?)

12:38 Sue

hmmm I’ve been in love with two gay men, one of whom is still a good friend. I have a couple of lesbian friends. I relate to people who’ve made largely unpopular choices. I can also relate to more conservative types, so I can “mediate” a bit. Also, out of the blue I got this call today from a friend wanting me to do a session for her and we discovered there are lots of ways we can help each other. The relationship coaching I just don’t feel is “pushing” me enough. I want to develop my skills and it’s sort of boring to do that now. Also, I’m struggling with the fact that my husband is back in prison and I’m sure there are people who’d say”well what right does she have….”

Plus I’ve noticed that when I do “crisis ” work, people get amazing results.

12:41 Tad

got it. so you’re attracted to things that are a bit more intense, envelope pushing, potentially unpopular – it seems like some of the heart of this is supporting people in making choices that might be unpopular, uncommon, unreasonable etc. having the courage to do that. can you tell me more about those themes? and what it is about ‘crisis’ that you love so much?

12:45 Sue

you got it. I don’t love crisis per se (I’ll be happy when there is no crisis in MY life for instance) I love that when we’re in crisis, given the right tools and support, we can survive and perhaps even thrive. I love that I can be part of that. I’m proud of my ability to be non-judgmental when people are in unusual circumstances, cause at some point in our lives, most of us will be and if we’ve done it before we’ll have the tools to manage. I also think I’m in the minority because I can stay calm in alot of situations that freak people out and I can pass that along to my clients.

12:46 Tad

got it. this is great. i want you to google ‘crisis coach’ and see what you find. while you’re doing that – some thoughts:

12:47 Sue

already did. some behavioural therapists, medical types. Also a bunch of people doing “mid-life crisis” coaching.

12:48 Tad

1) with crisis coaching you’re going to be dealing with less ‘long term’ hubs. for example: when i got bed bugs i went on a mad search online for answers. but since the situation resolved itself i’ve not looked for anything. there’s no community i’m a part of around it ongoingly – no bed bug support group. so search engine optimization will be uber critical for you.

making it easy for someone to find you the SECOND it happens for them and they hit google in a blind panic

2) the parents of gay/lesbians are far more likely to have ongoing groups. i also imagine there are a lot of resources out there for them already. but this could be perfect – if you gather that info together for people.

3) nurses could be a great target market. and i’m curious what kinds of problems you see them facing.

4) people affected by the prison system – what are the hubs for them?

5) the thing that jumps out at me and strikes me most authentically is the ‘unusual intensity’ you work with people in. people who find themselves in situations that most people can’t understand or relate to and likely have some strong judgment of. so that feels like a potentially strong piece of this, ‘how do you deal with the judgment of your community?’

12:54 Sue

So if you had “bed-bugs” and called me I would help you release any fears, shame, anger you had around that. And you’d feel so much better. I’d also network with some natural pesticide company who’d be spraying your house with environmentally friendly stugf while I did energy work on the phone with you, THEN, if you had residual emotional trauma that was triggered by the little critters, I’d help with that in subsequent sessions. But I get your point.

Gay/lesbian-agreed

nurse-they’re overworked, underpayed (their perception), work long hours, have to deal with the feelings of parents, children, doctors AND do medicaal stuff

12:56 Tad

and hospital politics. gossip of other nurses. seniority issues. aggressive communication styles.

1:00 Sue

Prison people-there are some support groups for families

1:01 Tad

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1:01 Sue

so where were we? Is “lifecrisiscoaching.com” too bland?

1:05 Tad

ok. so yes. that’s too broad.

but here’s the interesting piece that shows up for me  in all of this.

people going through bizarrely intense and unusual things that a normal therapist or life coach might not ‘get’

things that aren’t always ‘socially acceptable’

there’s something really powerful in that for me

so there are two levels here.

1) those three niches. they are technically all doable. in order of technical/by the books priority i’d say it’s 1) nurses 2) parents of gay and lesbian kids 3) prison group

2) the deeper level: i feel like something is emerging about the core theme of your work. the part that lights you up. the part that authentically emerges from your own life.

1:08 Sue

Agreed.

1:09 Tad

so that’s great! ok. so let’s look at next steps on all of this.

1) i want to invite you to write about this deeper theme and come up with every situation that you can imagine that might fit this theme of ‘unusual intensity’

make a list

2) i want you to pick ONE of those target markets (for the moment) and articulate the problems they experience, results they want and the major hubs for them.

1:11 Sue

okay, so for now I need to get a site up and a domain, so I can start to make some money again

1:13 Tad

ok. so homework there – i invite you to jam on URL names like unusualintensity.com, or unusuallyintensesituations.com or howthefuckdoidealwiththis.com

etc.

try to come up with at least 25

ideally the URL speaks directly to their situation and either the problem they’re experiencing or the result they most want

or to the target market they’re in. they should hear the URL and think, ‘that’s for me!’

or at least be curious.

like, ‘getmoreclientsnow.com’

or ‘yogaforroundbodies.com’

or ‘thestressfreenurse.com’

etc

it can take some fiddling to figure it out

1:15 Sue

Got it. So I’ll do that and then book another session (after I’ve paid you for this one:) and I’ll bring you a couple of URL possibilities?

1:16 Tad

exactly. a question for you – would you be open to me sharing this chat on my blog. i could do it with your name or without it.

1:17 Sue

I would definitely be open to it-yes. Use my name I think this conversation would help a lot of folks

1:18 Tad

wonderful. and what contact info for you should i give in case people are intrigued and want to reach you?

1:20 Sue

Suegently (at) gmail (dot) com or 647-831-4348. Thanks so much Tad. I gotta go now-will be in touch soon. Should I send you the ideas for URL’s or wait til our next session?

1:20 Tad

feel free to send them to me

talk soon!

1:20 Sue

Thanks again. You’re such a dear.

1:21 Tad

<3<3

 

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Marketing Bears Talk About Niches

I just created some cartoons using this cool new website I found. These three cartoons summarize a conversation I end up having pretty often with people about niche markets and why they matter. Enjoy!

Why You Need To Think About Who You’re Trying to Reach

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Why Fuzzy Niches Don’t Work (Part 1)

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Why Fuzzy Niches Don’t Work (Part 2)

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The Four Keys to Getting New Clients

people magnet The Four Keys to Getting New ClientsEach of these components can help you attract more brand new clients and each level can help you get the most out of your existing relationships.

The first component is the niche. The niche is your target market. It’s who you’re going after. This is the center of any marketing. When I talked to Dominic he and I were both commiserating that whenever we would get confused in terms of helping clients or clients would get fuzzy about a next step, not being sure what to do, it always came back to this. About looking at the niche of who are you going after.

The second component is the irresistible offer. What are you offering to this niche? A lot of people make the mistake in marketing of thinking, “Oh, I’m going to design this product and service,” and then it’s like, “How do I market it?” is a separate step.

I think if we’re going to be successful in business we need to step back and think of the marketing in the design process itself. Meaning, how can we make the product so irresistible inherently, that it’s easy to sell, versus just a generic sort of bland, boring product and service and then figuring out how we can sort of sell the sizzle and not the steak. That’s the second component is the offer.

The third component is the hubs. This was one of the things that really made so much sense to me when I was talking with Dominic. A lot of people at my trainings would say, “Well where do I advertise? Where do I market? How do I find people?”

I never really knew how to answer that. I always give kind of vague answers but now the answer’s really clear for me. Where you find them depends entirely on who you’re looking for. One group of people is going to hang out in one place. Another group’s going to hang out in another place.

It’s not just about where to find them. It’s also about a way to build trust with them. That’s a lot more powerful than other things you may have tried. So that’s the third component, the hubs.

The first is the niche. Second, what are we offering them? Third the hubs, where do we find them?

And fourth, word of mouth strategies. Again you’re already getting passive word of mouth but are there things you can do to accelerate it and get more word of mouth? Yes.

 

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More Reasons Why Word of Mouth is Kind of The Best Thing Ever for Your Marketing Plan . . .

marketing interview More Reasons Why Word of Mouth is Kind of The Best Thing Ever for Your Marketing Plan . . .

Not convinced about Word of Mouth?

Here are some more things to consider . . .

Andy Sernovitz, in his book Word of Mouth Marketing puts it this way . . .

“Good marketing is easy. One of the most important things I’ve learned is that word of mouth marketing can be so easy and obvious that everyone misses just how easy and obvious it is.

Marketing is what you do, not what you say. The story that will be told by the power of word of mouth is what really happens underneath all the marketing. If you have good products and good services, people will say good things about you. If you fall down on the job, they will say that, too.
When you are thinking about a new product, what you really should be thinking about is what people will say after they use it-its functionality, its quality, and how you treated them.

A 2006 study by the Verde Group showed that people who hear about a bad shopping experience are less likely than people who actually had the bad experience to ever set foot in the store. And when you realize that someone’s who’s had an unpleasant encounter with your stuff is going to tell, on average, five other people, you start to see just how damaging bad word of mouth can be in the real world.

Big Idea: Success comes not from what you advertise, but from what you deliver.”

Or as Mark Hughes points out in Buzz Marketing:

“There are four reasons to pay use word of mouth: The ad clutter is rising to intolerable levels in America (a 283 index on the Clutter Curve; see chapter 10). Traditional forms of media are rising in cost, compounding the issue of clutter. We’ve been lied to so many times with advertising, it seems like te only message we trust these days comes from regular people like you and me. Technology is accelerating word of mouth.”

Listen closely to George Silverman, author of The Secrets of Word-of-Mouth Marketing:

“It’s more relevant and complete. Word of mouth is “live,” not canned like most company communication. When a friend tells you about a book, movie or other product that she thinks you would like, she is telling you because she thinks that you–not some anonymous stranger–would like it.
The inherent honesty of word of mouth further adds to its credibility. The customer determines who he will talk to, what he will ask, or whether he will continue to listen or politely change the subject. For instance, if 25 people tell 25 people and the process is repeated five more times, the number equals approximately the population of the United States. One more iteration and the number equals approximately the population of the entire world!
Word of mouth saves time and money. Another element of word of mouth is that it can be extremely efficient. If you want to buy a product that you don’t know too much about, the best way is often to find a few people who have investigated the product, and learn from them what they have found out. The product literature gives you only promises. Word of mouth gives you reality.

o    Is the most powerful, influential, persuasive force in the marketplace (the most obvious reason)
o    Is an experience delivery mechanism (the most important and overlooked reason)
o    Is independent, therefore credible
o    Becomes part of the product itself
o    Is custom-tailored, most relevant, and complete
o    Is self-generating, self-breeding, grows exponentially, sometimes explosively
o    Is unlimited in speed and scope
o    Can originate from a  single source, or a relatively small number of sources
o    Is extremely dependent on the nature of the source
o    Can be tremendously time-saving, efficient, and labour-saving
o    Is often negative, but the negatives can actually be positive
o    Can be very inexpensive to stimulate, amplify, and sustain.”

 

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Five Solid Reasons to Think About Your Niche

In this blog, we’re going to start with the most basic of all questions:

Why bother?

Well . . .

My friend Dominic Canterbury – a word of mouth marketing specialist – came up with this list:

You know your targeting sucks when:

1. Your marketing strategy consists of “just getting your name out there”

2. Your target is, “People who can afford me.”

3. Your Unique Selling Proposition is a lame platitude such as, “I work to truly understand my client’s needs.”

4. You wish you didn’t look just like the competition

5. You define it by age, income and geography

6. Your word-of-mouth strategy is based on lines like, “The highest compliment you can pay us is the referral of a friend.”

7. You blew your marketing budget on advertising that did nothing for you

8. You don’t like your clients

9. Or, you’ve run plumb out of fresh marketing ideas

Owch.

Hard but true.

One of the classic blunders in marketing is: Not clearly identifying your ideal client.

But most businesses have never really answered the question, “Who is my niche?” in any meaningful way. And it’s probably one of the most important question you’ll ever answer for your business.

They say, “We help everybody . . .”

“Who are you trying to reach?
Who’s your target market?
Who’s your niche?”

There is likely no decision in business more central or profound than this one.

And no question that meets with more resistance.

After all, that question asks you to make a decision. Once you decide who you’re trying to reach you have also, by necessity, made a decision about who you are no longer trying to reach.

You are asking yourself, “who am I best able to help?” And this brings up a lot of very personal issues about what you’re passionate about, why you’re here on Earth, what your talents are – questions that are often dealt with by ignoring them.

I’ve found that many people sort of “short circuit” when asked to address this question directly. Their eyes glaze over and they go into a deep haze.

But it must be addressed.

And yet, most entrepreneurs aren’t even aware that they have a problem.

Why is identifying your niche important?

Dominic Canterbury (www.dc-strategic.com) told me once that, whenever he feels stuck or cloudy about what to do next in his marketing work with a client he takes that as a sign that he’s lost sight of the niche. So, he’ll stop, review who the target market is and instantly, ideas will start to flow.

Why is that?

Your niche is the very center of all of your marketing efforts.

You must identify a niche. Until and unless you do that:

1. How can you possibly make your business attractive to them (or yourself)? And why would you market? You will be irresistibly attracted to your ideal client – and this will, in the long term, make you irresistibly attractive to them. Having a client you’re excited to attract & serve gives you energy.

* * *

MISSION IMPOSSIBLE:

You have 24 hours to find the perfect gift for my friend or else you will never see your family again. ( . . . “Does that include my in-laws?” you ask.) BUT! The catch is that I won’t tell you anything about them. This is, of course, impossible.

* * *

2. How do you know how to word your marketing materials? The more that people feel you are speaking right to them, and nobody else, the more likely they are to buy. You want them saying, “that’s me!” not “so what.” The better you know them, the more you will know what to say and what to avoid saying. It’s about knowing exactly the right thing to say to them to get them to act.

3. How do you know where to invest your marketing efforts?

4. How can you possibly expect to receive any quality referrals from your existing clients? If you can’t tell them the kind of people you want them to send you – how will they know?

5. How can you know where to find them if you don’t know who they are? You’d be surprised how often people miss this obvious point. People ask me all the time, “Where can I find more clients?” and I ask them, “Well, what kind of clients? Who are you looking for?” Most folks can’t really answer that except in vague notions of “people who are open to change”. That’s likely too vague. Different sorts of folks hang out in different places. Some people may already have your ideal client as their clients. You target market is already spending their money somewhere. They’re likely already hanging out somewhere.

For most businesses I know, finding a niche is one of the most important steps. If you can’t be everything to everyone, then who are you best able you serve? What are you best at?

 

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Seven Important Premises About Identifying Your Niche

People often freak out when they are asked to identify a niche. Of course, the reason that most people freak out is because they assume they have to change everything about their business right now. They are terrified that they will have to change their logo, their font choice, they’ll have to dump most of their current clients, reword all of their marketing materials and website, and divorce their spouse etc.

So, as you go through this virtual workshop let’s build on these assumptions . . .

FIRST: You can be explicit without being exclusive.

Just because you’ve picked a niche doesn’t mean that you can’t work with people outside of it. Let’s say you’re a massage therapist who focuses on pregnant women. That doesn’t mean you can’t also massage men or elderly women – it just means that you aren’t targeting them. It means that the bulk of the people you attract will be within your niche, but you will still attract other folks who don’t fit your niche – just because they like you, happened to hear about you first, or were recommended by someone they trust. That’s fine. There’s no need to turn them away.

SECOND: A niche can be phased in.

You don’t need to try to turn everything around overnight. In fact, that’s likely a bad idea. Better is to adopt an attitude of ‘playing’ with some niches. You can identify a few niches that you think might be a fit and attempt different promotions to each. When you find a niche that feels really wonderful (and meets the criteria I’m about to show you), you can try more promotions and those promotions can expand to become the bulk of your business. Of course, the more you focus and commit to a niche – the more it will expand.

THIRD: A niche may take a while to identify (and that’s okay).

Think of clarifying your ideal client as a long-term process rather than an event. You’ll be able to answer some of the questions in this virtual workshop easily. Others you’ll need to sit with; some for a few weeks and some for a few years. That’s the truth. Most people tell me that when they stumble across their niche – and stumble is really a good word – it’s like a light bulb going off and they think, “Why didn’t I see that before?” Because they couldn’t. It’s a process.

Since the niche is so connected to our nature – to who we are as people – it lifts up all of the places we’re not clear on our nature, not clear about our passions and our purpose. It can feel like such a huge decision. The reality is that we humans aren’t so narrowly specialized or defined as we are asking our businesses to be sometimes – we fear giving up on parts of ourselves. But remember, that your business is not who you are. It will, by necessity, be more narrowly focused than you are as an individual. That’s okay.

Before you even begin to look at any of these materials, please take 3 minutes and go read the following article by Robert Middleton . . .

http://radicalbusiness.blogspot.com/2006/09/finding-your-niche-robert-middleton.html

FOURTH: You’re already losing people.

Perhaps the greatest fear that comes up for people when asked to identify a specific niche is that they will lose potential clients. This is true. But consider this. You already are. You will never, ever, ever, ever, EVER be attractive to everyone. Impossible. If you try to be everything to everybody you’ll just become nothing to everybody. You’ll become generic and thus invisible. No matter what strategy you’re using right now, you’re already losing people. Some people love it and others are turned off by it. That’s not a problem. The real question is: who do you want to attract? And are you doing everything you could be attractive to them?

FIFTH: Starting specific is better than starting general.

Imagine a funnel. At the top is the whole marketplace. Everybody. At the bottom is a single person. Now obviously, trying to reach everyone at the top won’t work, but a single person at the bottom can’t sustain you either. What to do. Most people come from the orientation of, “okay, let’s start general and only go as specific as we have to.” I’m suggesting an opposite orientation – starting at the very specific, targeted bottom and only going up as far as you absolutely have to. Start with a very defined target and only widen as much as you need to.

SIXTH: Don’t underestimate the size of your niche.

Most entrepreneurs do. You don’t just have to appeal to the hardcore, ‘true believers’. Sure, that’s who you might be most attractive to, but you can also reach those who are ‘on the road’. Plus, as you grow, you may need to tinker your marketing to reach a slightly broader niche. Now, if there’s enough hardcore folks to meet your needs then that’s fine, but sometimes people make the mistake of thinking, “oh there’s not enough people who are into ______.” Well, maybe not as a full time lifestyle, but there’s probably a bunch who are interested. The weekend warriors of camping for example – they’re not ‘hardcore campers’ – but maybe you don’t need them to be.

SEVENTH: It’s up to you. It’s your damned decision.

Don’t let any marketing or business consultant tell you otherwise. Yes, there are things you can do to pick a winning niche – and, a bit later – I’ll show you some criteria that I think you’ll love that might make your decision making process much easier – but, hey, this is your life right? All sorts of people will have all sorts of ideas about what’s best for you and your business. And, who knows, some of them are probably right (the bastards). But some are wrong. Your life and your business = your decisions. You’ll make some mistakes, but at least let them be your mistakes, not someone else’s.

EIGHTH: You like have more than one niche.

This is so important. Most businesses I know have at least three solid target markets to focus on. The important thing is to know who they are. Each group may require a slightly different approach. So many people get stressed because they can’t identify ‘the one’ niche. Relax. You might have several. I would invite you to get clear on your top three and focus on those.

 

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Why Demographics Aren’t Enough for Your Niche

So, how do you know if a niche you’re thinking of is a good one?

Well, your niche may be defined by what you do. You make a particular widget that has only one use and there’s only three buyers of it in the market. Your service is helping to turn breach babies naturally – the nature of your service may define the target market.

But that’s a rare thing.

Your product and service likely gives what you’re offering some definition. If you do eco-friendly lawn care there’s likely going to be some folks that are more into that than others.

At the heart of it, you’re only going to be helping folks who have a problem you can help them solve. But what if there’s a lot of people who have that problem? What if a lot of people could technically benefit from the use of your product or service?

In many cases, I will ask people who their niche is and they’ll say, “everybody!”. That is, of course, the wrong answer. When I explain that they can’t reach everyone, they look glum, pout and say, “but my product or service could help anyone!”

And that may or may not be true.

But it’s a tempting line of logic – after all look at the following list and ask yourself, “Who could these products and services be used by?”

- massage
– marketing consulting
– accounting
– recycled paper
– recycled journals and notebooks
– a health food bar
– life coaching
– interior design
– real estate agent

etc.

Couldn’t a lot of people use each of those? Sure, each of them vaguely suggests a target market, but only vaguely. Yes, a marketing consultant will work with businesses – but what kind of businesses? An interior designer will work with people who live somewhere or have an office – but what kinds of people? A real estate agent will work with people looking to buy or sell a home – but what kinds of people?

Do you follow?

The implied niche is, almost always, too wide.

There’s a tonne of food bars – and sure they implied niche is ‘people interested in their health’. But what kind of people? Luna Bar was the first to target active women specifically.

There’s lots of companies that make journals and notebooks – and the implied niche is obviously – people who like to write and need something to take notes in . . . but what kinds of people? Recover Journals out of Halifax, Nova Scotia was one of the first to target to eco, funky, retro crowd.

Most of us could help a lot of people with what we do. But if we try to reach everyone – if we don’t pick a niche – we make our marketing jobs 100 times harder. It’s just easier and more effective to pick a niche. What kinds of people do we want to target?

There’s eight specific qualities that you will want to look at – but I’ll get to that a bit later. For now there’s a ‘meta-distinction’ – a big and overarching idea that is really important to ‘get’.

It’s about the difference between people’s inner and outer realities.

This is a critical question – I’ve asked many people who their niche is and gotten answers that were profoundly off base.

And there’s two kinds “off base”. The first kind sounds like this.

- my niche is that I sell organic produce
– my niche is that I make my products using only fair trade products
– my niche is that I teach this particular style of Karate (and I’m the only one in town who does it)

What’s the problem here?

They’re defining their niche by what they do, instead of who they’re targeting with it. Again, in some cases, what you do will determine your niche – but that’s rare. If you’ve got that situation you don’t need to read another word. You’re set.

If that’s not you.

It’s not that the above list aren’t fine selling features. They are. But they are not a niche. They might be part of what’s called your USP or your Irresistible Offer – but they’re not a niche.

A niche is your target market. They’re not what you do. They’re who you’re trying to reach.

But how are we describing ‘who’ we’re trying to reach?

That’s where we run into the second – and more common – mistake.

People often say things like:

- my niche is women ages 25-35 living in Calgary
– my niche is people who make over $65,000 per year
– my niche is black men ages 20-30
– our niche is the asian community

Those look like good targets, don’t they? They seem to be well thought out and really specific.

But we need to be aware of the difference between demographics and psychographics. Many people think that a niche is defined by the external appearances (e.g. age, ethnic background, gender, income). But this is the worst way to identify your niche.

Why?

Well, just because people share external appearances doesn’t mean that they talk to each other. It doesn’t mean they share the same values or hang out in the same clubs.

Not all women, ages 25-35 living in your community talk with each other. They don’t give each other a ‘knowing wink’ as they pass each other on the street.

And that knowing wink is key. It means that they recognize and know each other when they see each other. It means that they recognize each other as “they’re one of us.” or “they’re just like me!” You can see the burst of recognition, “Ohmygodyou’reintoAniDiFrancometoo!!!!” They’re a part of a similar subculture that shares certain habits, values, passions, obsessions, tastes, aesthetics and hobbies.

Anything that is a priority for them – anything they organize their life and time around could be the basis of a niche – if enough people share it and if . . . I’m getting ahead of myself. Here’s a simple equation:

Niche = target market = subculture = community = lifestyle.

When you see punks walking down the street – they notice each other when they pass by. In certain communities in San Francisco you could see the gay community give each other these looks – even if they didn’t know each other (strong gaydar) – to the total cluelessness of the straight people around them. People who are hardcore into Dungeon’s and Dragons might notice a book someone’s reading. Dog owners notice other dog owners when going on walks. Single mothers notice other single mothers. Etc.

More importantly, these folks all tend to hang out in groups – and that will become very important as we progress.

Inner realities not outer realities.

Not all black men ages 40-50 living in the same neighbourhood talk with one another. They don’t all think alike. They don’t have the same problems – we just delude ourselves into thinking that they do.

In the modern world, we live more in communities of affinity than communities of geography. A sad fact, but a true one none the less.

The point is this: when you identify your niche, you must be predominantly aware of people’s inner reality more than their outer reality. This doesn’t mean you ignore demographics. It means that they aren’t primary.

“American marketing has historically been based upon customer demographics – what we look like on the outside. But in the past few years, psychographics – what we look like on the inside – have become a far better means of capturing the hearts and minds of customers. Demographics tend to be more tangible and are primarily focused on age, race, or income. Psychographics focus more on intangible – passions, beliefs, or values. Demographics are often defined by how the world sees us while psychographics are defined by how we see ourselves.” (Marketing That Matters, p,67)

But simply shifting to acknowledge people’s inner realities isn’t enough. It’s easy to do that in a vague – and totally meaningless – way.

- my niche is people who can afford me
– my niche is people who like me
– my niche is people who are fundamentally open to change
– people who are positive and optimistic

When looking at our niche we need to be specific – a vague niche is as much an oxymoron as ‘military intelligence’.

A bit later, we’re going to look at how to boil your niche down into a single, easy to say sentence that people will ‘get’ right away.

But for now, it’s enough to understand that a niche is more than appearances and bank balances.

 

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The Eight Qualities of a Perfect Niche

So, we know that having a clear niche or target market is essential, but, how do you know if you’ve got a good niche?

It’s one of the biggest fears people have – “what if I pick the wrong niche?

And the fear is justifiable. After all, if you pick the wrong niche and spend a lot of time, money and energy in trying to reach it . . . and it doesn’t work out. Well, you’d probably rather not go through that.

The truth is, you could pick a perfect niche and still fail. A strong niche isn’t a guarantee of success, it just makes it a lot more likely is all.

So, what constitutes a good niche?

Luckily for you, it’s extremely easy to tell whether your niche is a good choice or not. There’s eight specific pieces of criteria you can use to judge any niche by.

And let me make a few predictions.

First: I predict these will all make a ton of sense to you.

Second: I predict you will agree with and really like these criteria.

Third: I predict that these criteria will give you some ‘aha’ moments of why past marketing efforts of yours have failed.

THE EIGHT QUALITIES OF YOUR PERFECT NICHE

1. they are experiencing a common set of easily identifiable needs you can fulfill or problems that you can help them with (and they are, at least, open to the notion that these problems can be solved and ideally they are passionately committed to solving it now – it’s a ‘must’ for them, not a ‘should’ that they’ll get to someday).

If they don’t have a common problem – it’s not a target market. And if you can’t help them with the problem – there’s simply no basis for any conversation. The problem or need is the basis of all your marketing. Most people make the mistake of thinking that people are buying their products or services – but that’s not true.

People couldn’t care less about your products or services (owch. the truth smarts) they just want a solution to their problems, they want relief from pain, they want to meet a need of theirs. Your products and services are merely a means to an ends.

So many entrepreneurs I know can talk for hours about the features and benefits of their products but if I say, “why do people need this? What are they buying it for?” they totally blank. They don’t know how to answer it. The ‘problem’ is not only the basis of your marketing message – it’s the white hot center of your niche.

2. common lifestyle: desires, passions, values, interests, hobbies, a common bond that you can cater to.

Some problems are so specific that only a narrow niche of people will suffer from them (e.g. a particular problem with a highly specialized computer application).

But some problems (e.g. back pain) are really generic. So, some problems have a sort of implied niche to them. Others don’t. If the problems that you solve are widely held – then you should likely consider selecting a particular community to work with and develop packages for.

A couple examples: a massage therapist who works with the BDSM community in Seattle. Sure, lots of people need massage – but when she caters her business to this community – she can cater to their particular needs, values and vibe. I saw an ad once that just said, “Rad Dyke Plumber” – a lesbian plumber. Now, it’s not like she’s dealing with different piping issues in any technical sense – but she is dealing with a different subculture with its own sense of esthetic.

If the problem is widely held – pick a particular community to serve. For example, if you’re tennis player and a massage therapist, you might consider becoming a massage therapist that caters to tennis players. A good niche shares a certain lifestyle.

Maybe they’re clubbers, maybe they’re weekend warriors who love to go camping each weekend, Maybe they’re all theatre buffs. Maybe they love to read comic books and play Dungeons and Dragons. They’re dog owners. They’re parents. They’re grandparents.

3. established, high quality hubs, communication networks etc.

Basically, this means that you can find them and reach them easily.

What is a hub? Think of it like the hub of a wheel. It’s the only point on the wheel where all of the spokes come together and meet. A hub is any place where you can find your niche. It might be an association they belong to, an event they tend to go to.

I can’t tell you how many times I hear people get excited about a niche they have little hope of reaching. Before you commit a dime to any niche ask yourself: Do they tend to hang out in the same places? Do they read the same magazines? Do they spend money in the same places? Are they a part of the same groups?

There are seven main categories of hubs (e.g. events, businesses, groups, publications, individuals, support systems, and websearch related). The more hubs that your niche has, the easier they will be to reach. The fewer hubs there are, the harder it will be.

Why do you want to find hubs?

Why do they matter so much?

Well, consider this – you can spend all of your time trying to find your clients individually, or you can just go to where they already are. You can spend all of your days trying to win the trust of the individuals in your niche one at a time . . . or you can secure the endorsement of someone they already trust and win over all of their trust at once.

The latter is far easier in the long term. When I go to a new town I could spend hundreds of dollars postering the city about my workshops, or I could just call up the local progressive, local business network and get their endorsement. Much easier.

4. there’s enough of them to meet your needs.

While most people don’t niche narrowly enough, you can make your niche too narrow. If there’s only three people in town who fit your description you may need to broaden your reach. You need to be really honest with yourself here. And challenge yourself: if you think there’s enough people – what are you basing that on? Hope? Or have you actually done some research?

5. they’re fun to work with and in alignment with your nature (these are likely the kinds of clients you most easily and naturally attract and the ones to whom you feel the most attracted – it’s a niche or community that you want to see thrive).

Who would really excite you to work with? Is there a particular niche or community of folks that you just naturally seem to love working?

I’ll tell you something I’ve noticed: there is a deep connection between your ideal niche and your nature as a person. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard people in my workshops say, “well, basically, my niche is people just like me!” And that’s not a crazy response. It makes sense.

6. they are underserved: the niche is often based on what your competitors aren’t doing.

If they have a need but are being ignored by your competition, that can be a goldmine. If they’re already being courted for their business by dozens of other businesses then that niche is less than ideal **unless** you are able to offer something so unique and so clearly more valuable that it will blow the competition out of the water.

If you’re able to do that then you’re in a good place.

If they are overserved – if they are inundated with options then you need to do one of three things: be the only option that focuses just on that niche exclusively (e.g. the only massage therapist in town who works only with mothers).

If there’s already a lot of other businesses focusing exclusively on that niche then you might consider picking a sub-niche – focusing on one particular sub-group of people in that niche (e.g. be the only massage practitioner in town that works exclusively with new mothers). Or third – you will also need to distinguish yourself in some other way.

You can differentiate yourself by: what you do, how you do it. how much you charge, who you offer it to, when you offer it and where you offer it.

7. they can afford to pay you full price for your products and services.

It’s important that they are able to pay you an amount that feels good and meets your needs. That may be a small amount or a large amount. That’s up to you – but if it’s less than you really want and need you will begin to resent them.

It will drain your energy. And you won’t have enough money to sustain yourself. It will start out as a gesture of goodwill, but will end in bitterness.

8. they are in alignment with your long-term business goals.

If you know where your business is headed long term, it’s just smart to pick clients that will fit with that (e.g. if you do eco-lawn care and want to work with “Golf Courses” eventually, but now need to do residential, it might be wise to focus on people who golf for now so that you can bridge into that later).

Says Dominic Canterbury:

“Let me give you an example: In my recent weekend seminar one of the attendees was an in-home physical trainer. His target: affluent middle-aged Eastside women. He was flummoxed. He’d tried all the traditional forms of marketing but nothing was working. So wielding my magic wand of marketing I says to him, “How about targeting affluent new moms. That way you can develop a set of services to meet their specific needs and you can cross promote with OBGYNs, Dulas and baby stores, and you can get them to pay attention to you by holding informative events or writing an article for local parenting magazines. You might even consider a blog.”

He loved the idea and immediately started coming up with excellent ideas on his own.

So, what makes this a good target and what makes the other suck? I’ll tell ya.

The new target market passes my patented tripartite Target Market Test:

1. They have shared needs you can meet through your business

2. They have hubs of communication

3. There’s enough of them to make it worth your time

The original target passed only #3, and I’m sorry folks, but you have to score high on all of them for it to work.”

 

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Top Ten Questions to Identify Your Niches

So, we know that having a niche is important.

And now we know how to identify a good one.

So, this is all great in theory – but how about in practice? What about in your particular situation.

So, where do you even start?

This is the hardest part. Identifying your niche(s). After all, you could choose any one of hundreds of possibilities. How do you choose?

The following ten questions are based on the assumption that you don’t already have a strong implicit niche for what you do – that there’s the possibility to choose a more narrow niche.

They’re also based on the idea that you want to choose a niche that is a natural fit for you – a niche that’s an extension of you somehow. You want the niche to be fun. In truth – it doesn’t need to be for the success of your business – but it likely does for your own fulfillment. So, these questions are often about you – getting to know yourself.

First of all, if you feel uptight about making the choice – relax. You’re not crazy. It’s a tricky question. And you’re not alone. A lot of people feel this way. And also relax because – you don’t have to figure this out over night. It’s okay – and often important – to take your time.

When I teach workshops – this is where people get stuck. All the theory I covered before is fine. It’s logical. It makes sense. They love it. And then I invite them to pick a niche to focus on for the weekend – and they freeze up or freak out.

I’d suggest that there’s at least ten primary ways that I’ve seen people use to pick a niche that fits the eight key criteria.

Now, not all of these will make sense or be a fit for your situation – but I invite you to sit with each question for three minutes – take 30 minutes with this – and see what comes up. You might just be surprised. Come up with your answers and then let yourself steep in them. Write the answers down and then schedule to revisit them in a month. Actually schedule it.

Here’s the ten themes and questions.

1. personal tragedy and defining moments: if you’ve been through breast cancer and you’re a holistic practitioner, you might feel passionate about helping other women going through that process. If you’ve been through a painful divorce and you’re a life coach – you might feel inspired about coaching women who are going through one themselves. Some people find that helping others through painful events that they’ve gone through is actually very healing for them. Personal tragedies can often be a source of immense passion and purpose. The defining moment might also have been a very positive thing. Maybe you climbed Mt. Everest.

THE QUESTION: What have been the five most defining moments or personal tragedies of your life?

2. community you’re a part of or want to serve: if you’re a part of the reiki community and you’re a massage therapist, why not serve the community you’re already a part of? Maybe you love the green business community and want to focus your accounting skills there. The point is that sometimes your niche is staring you right in the face.

THE QUESTION: What groups, networks or subcultures are you already a part of?

3. time of life (e.g. retirement): most people will go through certain events – transitioning from one career to another, becoming a parent, retiring, divorcing etc. You might decide that your niche is based around one of these transitions. You might be a “retirement coach”. You might have a boutique furniture store and do some promotions for new parents – or parents whose kids are “finally” leaving home. Remember: a niche can be for your whole business or just a simple promotion.

THE QUESTION: What life transitions do you think are the most natural fit for what you do?

4. profession & industry: Perhaps your niche is based on working with a particular industry. Maybe you’ve decided to work specifically with Ice Cream shops or maybe you’re going to sell your products and services to doctors and hospitals. You might decide that you’re going to do a fitness package for accountants. Sounds weird – but it can work.

THE QUESTION: What professions or industries are you a part of or think might be the most natural fit for what you have to offer?

5. hobby/lifestyle: Maybe you’re a realtor who focuses on dog lovers. I know one life coach who is a tea geek – he has a socially unacceptable knowledge of tea. But he’s building a whole online business with himself as a tea sommelier.

THE QUESTION: What hobbies, interest or bizarre fascinations do you have?

6. specific unsolved problem: maybe your niche is based around a particular, very specific problem that people face. It could be a specific issue people have with their kidneys, it could be ‘how do i get my videos online?’, it could be ‘how do i get my website to sell more products?’ The key is to look at a problem that a group of people are frustrated with.

THE QUESTION: Is there a very particular problem that your product or service solves particularly well?

7. your strengths: all of us are strong in some area. We have certain qualities that make us who we are. Maybe our strength is that we’re really sensitive. Maybe it’s that we’re really good at diffusing conflict. Maybe we’re naturally entertaining or a great problem solver. I noticed years ago that I was really good at leading workshops and was entertaining – and that I was good at coaching people. So, I asked myself, “What kind of work could allow me to do that?” That was a big part of Radical Business starting.

THE QUESTION: what are you really, really good at?

8. your passions: I think that the best niches are built around some passion that you have. For me, I’m passionate about alternatives – but even more so I’m passionate about helping friends of mine get over their marketing hurdles and frustrations. I really love doing that. I’m passionate about leading workshops. I’m passionate about tinkering and improving the workshops.

THE QUESTION: if you could do anything with your life what would it be? what topics, activities etc. are you most passionate about?

9. the underserved: In almost any marketplace – there’s some folks who are getting ignored who would immensely benefit from your product and service. When I used to do workshops for Student Councils in High Schools across Alberta I found that the rural schools were massively underserved – and yet were most willing to spend the most money.

THE QUESTION: Who aren’t your competitors serving? Who could benefit immensely from your product or service that isn’t being actively courted?

10. the one’s you already got:
If you’ve been in business for a few years or more – you might notice that you seem to attract and retain a certain kind of person. It can be interesting to look at what niche or community you seem to be attracting most easily. It’s interesting to notice who you enjoy most from the people you’re attracting.

THE QUESTION: Who do you seem to be already, naturally and effortlessly attracting? Who seems to be showing up?

 

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Eighteen Examples of Effective “Niches in One Sentence”

Radical Business: We help green, community-minded, conscious, holistic and locally owned businesses that are struggling with their cashflow, not attracting enough clients and keep ‘meaning’ to handle their marketing – but end up putting it off.

Massage Therapist:
I work with people in the Seattle BDSM community who feel embarrased when they go to a massage therapist because they have to explain the bite marks and bruises on their body.

Realtor #1: I work with dog owning families in Seattle who are struggling to find a house that meets their needs and the needs of their dog but feel confused as to how to even start looking for a good fit.

Realtor #2: I work with people with disabilities– who struggle to find a home that they like and can afford and who feel overwhelmed and confused about where to even start in applying for financing.

Printing Company: We help the traveling business man who shows up in Calgary hotels freak out because they realize that they need a lot of last minute printing work done for their conference or visit and they have no idea where to go or who to trust.

Low Impact Living.com: We help homeowners who want to become more green and energy efficient in their homes but feel totally lost and overwhelmed with where to even start.

www.unlockthegame.com: We help salespeople who are in tremendous pain when it comes to selling. They hate doing it. They are secretly scared to pick up the phone. They hate being rejected but also hate using the manipulative sales techniques they were taught. They feel trapped because they need to make a living but they can’t find a way to sell that doesn’t feel like they’re also selling out their integrity.

Rapid Fire Theatre (an improv comedy company):
Main Niche for our weekly shows: high school, college and university students. Niche for Gigs: event organizers for corporate events who need a show that is guaranteed to be entertaining and tailored to the client.

D-Tox Salon:
We help chemically sensitive individuals who can’t go into a regular salon due to the amount of chemicals used. And they feel so frustrated because they’d rally love to get a salon treatment but they can’t. They’ve got nowhere to go.

New Leaf Paper: We help graphic designers who are frustrated by the amount of paper-waste in their industry and who are looking for something special they can offer to their clients to set them apart as a graphic designer.

Rad Dyke Plumber: I work with women in the lesbian community who are having trouble with their pipes.

Joie de Vivre Hotels designs each of their hotels on a particular niche. They do this by picking a magazine (e.g. Rolling Stone) and then picking five adjectives that describe that magazine (e.g. funky, cool, young-at-heart, adventurous and irreverent). And so, people who love Rolling Stone magazine will love this hotel. They called this particular hotel “The Phoenix”. Each hotel was individually branded.

NOTE: If you find your description of the kind of person you want too vague – you might consider adding 2-3 more adjectives to describe them further – or you might reevaluate whether or not your niche is that strong.

A FEW MORE:

Robert Middleton of www.actionplan.com recently sent out an email in which he shared what some of his clients had come up with. Robert is the person I got this notion of the niche being a combination of the Target + Problem from in the first place. Check his stuff out.

Healthcare Consultant: We work with healthcare organizations, who struggle with hiring and keeping really good people.

Financial Planner:
I help people with a six figure incomes who are getting clobbered by taxes, staring at college and retirement and wondering how in the world they’re going to pay for it all.

Management Consultant: I work with CEOS of small to medium sized businesses who are experiencing a steady decline in productivity with their management teams and employees and are finding training programs ineffective. Lack of personal accountability and self- management skills has led to something that looks like procrastination and productivity loss.

Life and Relationship Coach: I work with individuals who have been unsuccessful in finding their ideal partner and with couples who struggle to keep their marriage intact.

Retail Consultant: I work with independent retailers who are frustrated with trying to get shoppers to buy.

Management Consultant: We work with busy entrepreneurs and business owners of successful small and medium companies who are frustrated because they are leaving money on the table because they are not getting important back-burner projects completed.

 

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